Faith over Fear

Deuteronomy 31:6
“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Fear is a liar.

One of my brave granddaughters

I stood on the platform I’d waited on the year before. The first time I donned the harness and looked across the water, I stepped into the air and ziplined across with a not so graceful landing. I enjoyed the ride, but a year later, harness on, anxiety and fear gripped me. I’d watched Tim sail across, but I couldn’t take the first step. The person equipping me wasn’t allowed to give me a push. Yes, I did ask her to. Instead, she helped me remove the harness, and I climbed to the ground. Fear had taken over and caused me to fail. I’d let it consume me.

Fear can paralyze, invade with feelings of impending doom, and take over logical reasoning. It can convince me I’m not good enough, or I can’t do this or that. So much is going on in the world that I can’t control, but I do have control over my response. Do I fear what I can’t change, or do I trust in God, who is with me in all things?

In Deuteronomy, Moses tells the people he’s been leading in the wilderness he will no longer be with them. He won’t enter the promised land. Instead, Joshua will take them on the rest of the journey. If I were Joshua, I would have been terrified to take over for such a great leader as Moses. Would I disappoint God’s people, take them the wrong direction, or fail to complete the task? Moses tells Joshua and the Israelites not to fear, but to be courageous because God is with them. Their journey into the promised land wasn’t easy. It took hope and faith.

Healthy fear keeps me safe. The fear I conjure up in my head because I’m gripped by uncertainty can stop me from moving forward in the work God calls me to do. I want to choose faith over fear and trust in God, who delivered the Israelites and will deliver me. Life is hard, but God is bigger than anything that instills fear.

Trust God in faith and leave fear behind.

LOVE

1 John 4:20-21
Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.  And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.

My mom always said, “You don’t have to like everyone, but you have to love them.” 

Personalities clash, opinions clog, ways of doing things frustrate, and expectations fail. All things that make people dislike one another. I could make a longer list of what makes people dislike or even hate another person, but if you’ve lived this life very long, you already know what’s on the list.

As a child, I thought everyone liked me and I liked everyone, then I grew into a middle schooler and learned the reality of relationships. People who had been friends made fun of me for going to church. I said things to others that were unkind. Some say this is typical middle school behavior, but I say why? Can’t we teach our children to be kind to everyone, no matter who we are? Can’t we do better?

Lead by example. Love my neighbor. Love the person who irritates me. Love the person I disagree with. But how? By showing compassion, having patience, giving grace, praying for people, helping, humbling myself, and the list goes on. Even though I'm not perfect, I can strive to do better.

God calls every one of us to love people and to love Him.

February is the month of love. Valentine’s Day celebrates love. So, I may not like everyone I meet, but I can pour God’s love over every person by being kind.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. -1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Love God and love people.

What if Today?

Philippians 4:4-7
Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

"What if today we were grateful for everything?" -Charlie Brown

The other day, I lay in bed sick from an upper respiratory virus. My head hurt and my body ached. I didn’t want to get up. Instead, I preferred to snuggle under the covers and feel sorry for myself—until I remembered people going through much more turmoil than myself. No, I didn’t feel well, but I didn’t need to wallow either.

Once the Holy Spirit kicked me into gear, I thanked God for my warm home, my caring husband, my beautiful family, my sweet dog, and the fact I’d recover in a few days and be back to my laptop writing. It’s amazing how gratitude can put life into perspective.

Paul reminds the Philippians not to be anxious, but to be thankful in every situation. EVERY ONE. Not just the times I’m healthy, not just the times I’m well fed, or satisfied with life, but in every situation. And then present our prayers to God. Once I get my attitude straight, then I can bend God’s ear.

Is it easy to be thankful first? Not always. Is it possible? Yes, because God is with me in everything. He’s near and aware of my situation. Do I always respond with thanks? Obviously not. But I’m going to keep on trying. Rather than focus on my anxious thoughts, I want to displace them with gratitude.

And the beautiful thing is, the peace of God, which goes beyond my understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

Thank God first.

And When We Pray

James 5:13-16
Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise. Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord.  And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. Therefore, confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

The very name of Jesus heals and brings peace. 

In browsing social media I’ve found people calling out for help, asking for prayer, advice, and information. People hurt, become ill, and find themselves in need. Me too.

Our world has gotten bigger through the internet. The beauty of networking with people around the world is the connection. I have family across the pond and across the states. I’ve connected with authors in Australia and Europe. Behind every post, comment, photo, and link is a person. Someone who is striving to live in this world of chaos and craziness.

I thank God, I not only have family and friends to connect to, but I have Jesus. Matthew West sings the song Don’t Stop Praying and Here Be Lions sing I Speak Jesus. Both songs echo the message to keep praying. Take worries, doubts, praises, and concerns to Jesus. So many times, when I’m scrolling through my social media feeds I pause to read another person seeking prayer for someone they love or for themselves. When I see this, I stop and pray. I’m thankful my friends and family reach out, and I’m beyond grateful I have a place to go with their needs and mine.

Jesus hears us when we pray.

Pray for one another.

Soak in the Light

2 Corinthians 4:6
For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.

Snow snuffed the light.

The eleven inches of snow buried the solar panel for my decorative outdoor lights. In my flower bed, I had placed a shepherd’s hook and hung a recycled, glass bird feeder I had filled with strings of fairy lights. The sun powers the tiny lights, and they illuminate the area. After the snow covered the solar panel, the lights stopped glowing. Rather than dig out the snow, I waited for the sun to melt it, then cleared what little was left.

I missed the glow of the fairy lights. They brightened the night and gave us enough light to see the sidewalk to the front door. After the snow melted and the solar panel gathered light and gave energy to the tiny bulbs, I looked out the window and saw them glowing. Their simple glow brought comfort and joy to me.

Like the fairy lights, if I don’t feed my soul with God’s word, prayer, and community, my light dims and may even go out. I need the fuel and energy I gain from the scripture, communicating with God, and sharing life with people who love Jesus.

I’m thankful for the light my family and friends shine on me. I’m grateful for the Bible that fuels me and the Holy Spirit who guides me.

God’s light shines on my heart and reminds of the sacrifice of Jesus. He died on the cross and took on my sins, so I can live with freedom from the world, have peace in my heart, and be a light for Him.

Soak in Jesus’ light and glorify God.

What an Honor

Colossians 3:12-15
Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

The light of love.

Have you ever taken a personality test? When I was a teenager and read Teen magazine (a long time ago), I couldn’t wait to take the personality quizzes and find out who I was. Silly, I know, but at the time I thought one simple test could answer my longing questions of who I was meant to be. Fast forward several years, and I found myself once again faced with tests that helped determine my personality.

A part of me still enjoyed delving into questions at the institute where I worked to determine a bit more about me. At that point in life, I answered questions which helped me see what kind of employee I was or what kind of occupation I should immerse myself in. The answers and results from the occupation tests rang true. Most of them pointed me to counselor, librarian, teacher, or writer. Two out of four isn’t bad.

Regardless of where the man-made tests place me in life, my greatest desire is to immerse myself in who God created me to be. According to Colossians, God wants me to offer compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and love. What an honor! I can’t do this alone, so I depend on the Holy Spirit to prompt me to live in a way that shines God’s light. It’s a process of continued growth and understanding. I get frustrated sometimes, but I keep plugging away with prayer and hope. That’s all God asks.

Show compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and love to the people you encounter. We don’t know their story or what they might be going through.

A Willing Spirit

Psalm 51:10-12

Create in me a pure heart, O God,
    and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
Do not cast me from your presence
    or take your Holy Spirit from me.
Restore to me the joy of your salvation
    and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.

Eleven inches of snow covered everything.

January 6, 2025, we had our first snowstorm of winter. Perhaps it will be our only one, time will tell. The weather crew had warned the tri-state of the impending weather. That amount of snow slowed life down for a few days. Schools called snow days, many businesses closed, kids and their parents made snow ice cream, cleared driveways, created snow angels, and enjoyed the day.

For me, snow reminds me of the peace and hope I have knowing God loves me. The silent sound of the first snowfall muffles the cacophony of our world. Neighbors help neighbors, men and women travel the roads tossing salt and plowing snow, linemen keep the electric on, and children find joy in the beautiful white flakes.

When the sun shines on the snow and the flakes sparkle, I see a pristine light like the light God shines on my heart. He purifies my soul and renews my spirit. He restores my joy.

How do I respond? God loves me and accepts me as I am. He has forgiven me and created a pure heart in me. It’s up to me to have a willing spirit to follow Him in obedience as I embrace the gifts and guidance He gives me.

I can talk about God’s love and light all day, but if I don’t respond to Him in obedience, I fail. God has called me to follow Him, to give Him my all, to shine His light. Because I love God, I hand over the reigns of my life and allow the Holy Spirit to work in me and guide me. I use the gifts God has given me to glorify Him and show the world Jesus’ love and sacrifice.

How will you respond to God?

 

Let Your Light Shine

John 8:12
When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

Matthew 5:16
In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

Many folks choose a word of the year. Me included.

In 2024, I focused on the word contentment and spent the year reflecting on being content in all circumstances. At times, I struggled with the thought of contentment. Other times, I counted my blessings. By the end of the year, I found myself being more thankful than ever.

In December, amidst the preparations for Christmas, I prayed about a word for 2025. It seemed like the word light popped up everywhere I turned, in Bible readings, in songs, of course, all the holiday lights, and even in my Dove dark chocolate square.

When I looked up Bible verses with the word light, I found two truths to focus on, and I’ll be honest, being light feels a bit overwhelming, but I know God is calling me and will equip me.

John 8:12 reminds me Jesus is the light in a dark world. He offers hope against the darkness and fills my heart with light. In this world we live in, there is a spiritual war between the darkness of sin and the light of Jesus. Because I’m a child of God—I’m also a warrior of light. A bearer of good, hope, and love.

To help me shine for Jesus, I’m reflecting on the Fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Imagine how bright we’d shine as God’s children when we take on all of these attributes. As a warrior of light, I’m also a prayer warrior, bending God’s ear to survive and thrive.

I pray I don’t fail to be a light for Jesus, as I seek God’s help in shining for him.

What will 2025 bring for you? I pray it is a year filled with hope and light.

Happy New Year!

Here comes 2025! 

I pray for a year filled with hope and joy for each and everyone.

 

Trust, Draw, Listen

Psalm 28:7-8
The Lord is my strength and my shield;
    my heart trusts in him, and he helps me.
My heart leaps for joy,
    and with my song I praise him.
The Lord is the strength of his people,
    a fortress of salvation for his anointed one (Jesus).

I love the words that David wrote in this psalm. He’d been through so many trials, temptations and tribulations, yet he looked to God. He’d tried doing things his own way and failed. But he knew where to turn. He fell before the Lord with praise because his strength came from Him. He trusted completely and understood that God shielded him from danger. 

God hasn’t changed. He remains the strength of his people. Gathering with folks each week for worship reminds me that God is my fortress of salvation.  We sing, pray, listen to the wisdom of the Bible, share in communion and dwell in His presence. There are times that my soul is so stirred that my heart leaps for joy, just like the psalm says. What a glorious reminder of His love.

As I prepare to enter another year, my prayer is to trust in God, draw closer to Jesus, and listen to the Holy Spirit.

I pray your new year will be filled with praises and joy.

Christmas Blessings

 

Celebrate Christmas~Joseph

Matthew 1:19-21, 24-25
Because Joseph her [Mary] husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly. But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”

When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. But he did not consummate their marriage until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus.

Joseph trusted the Lord. 

As a child, I heard the story of Jesus' birth. We learned of the trek to Bethlehem, angels singing, shepherds visiting, and of course Mary giving birth to the baby Jesus. I imagined the animals surrounding the manger, the sheep baaing and cows mooing, but I didn't give much thought to Joseph. In the story, he knocks on the inn keeper's door, and he leads Mary to the stable. I knew he was present, yet he disappeared into the background.

What I've learned since:
Joseph was kind, compassionate, and faithful to God. He truly loved Mary. I'm not surprised by any of this. In God's plan to bring Jesus into the world, he chose two people who adored and trusted Him. Joseph and Mary's engagement, as binding as marriage is today, could only be broken by divorce. Rather than expose Mary as pregnant before wedlock, Joseph planned to quietly divorce her and set her free. Otherwise, she could have been stoned to death for adultery.

Thank goodness the angel gave Joseph the low down on God's plan. On hearing the angel's words, he could have run the other way. Joseph could have laughed in the angel's face. Instead, he chose to trust God's plan. His faith overcame his fear.

As we celebrate Jesus' birth, let's delight in the Lord with faith like Joseph. He tossed his fears aside and trusted in God. If Joseph could do that in his circumstance, surely, we can too.

I pray as we celebrate the Christmas season, we consider Joseph's faith and his trust in God.

Have You Taken the Time?

I'd been looking for a nativity to place outside.

Many were too expensive or elaborate.

I wanted one that simply pointed to the Christmas story.

Then I discovered this lovely metal cutout at Hobby Lobby.

Now, each time I see it, I'm reminded of why we celebrate.

It only takes a moment to remember the reason.

To think about and pray thank you for Jesus' birth and sacrifice.

I hope you take the time to remember the sweet baby who changed the world.

 

Celebrate Christmas~Mary

Luke 2:6-7
While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She [Mary] wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

Bumping along on a lowly donkey, nine months pregnant, Mary prepared for the birth of her son, Jesus. She made the journey with her betrothed, Joseph, to the town of Bethlehem where they'd be counted and registered to pay taxes. Towards the end of a pregnancy, most women are mighty uncomfortable. I can't imagine riding a donkey on rough roads and bouncing around. But, Mary’s faith trumped her discomfort.

Womanhood arrived early in Mary's day. History determines her to be anywhere from fourteen to seventeen, a child in our culture. Yet her love for God matured and grew in her few years. The angel who delivered the news that she'd give birth to the Messiah, recognized this young woman's faith.

Mary, being the faithful servant, accepted the angel's proclamation with grace and trust.

Trust plays a huge part in Jesus' birth. Joseph trusted enough to wed Mary.  The angel trusted God as he delivered his messages. The shepherds trusted the angels and ran to see the baby. And Mary trusted God with the glorious phenomenon of Jesus' birth.

As Mary bumped along, I can't imagine the discomfort. But she moved forward as God called her. She birthed the baby in a stable, most likely a cave where the animals were fed and watered. Hopefully, she had clean straw and fresh water. Regardless, Mary welcomed her child with joy that night.  

As you think about the troubles of life, the inconveniences, the losses, the illness, think about Mary. In her discomfort and what was likely a troubled time for her, she moved forward with trust and faith. Regardless of what's behind us, let's keep our eyes on Jesus and celebrate the joy of this season.

Stop for a few moments and breathe in the spirit of the season. Capture the essence of joy Jesus brought to us. Then breathe out and share his hope.

Celebrating Christmas~Shepherds

Luke 2:15-18
When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”
So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 

Have you ever seen an alpaca? 

Sometimes confused with a llama—their ears are more rounded, their bodies are smaller, and their fur is shaggier. A few years ago, Tim and I visited an alpaca farm. The comical looking creatures, with their floppy hair, stood in the field beside the Alpaca Meadows gift and wool shop. A lovely lady greeted us and welcomed us into her store. After a little too much shopping, she offered to show us her animals. If it hadn't been so muddy, we could have taken one for a walk, instead, we tromped through the water-logged field for a close-up experience. One of the alpacas, who is blind, came right to her caretaker. She trusted her and allowed us to pet her fuzzy head, because she knew her shepherd.

In Luke chapter two, sheep trusted their shepherd and the shepherd trusted the Lord.

When the angels appeared to the shepherds, fear struck them, until the angel told them not to be afraid, but to trust. Once the shock of seeing and hearing the angels sunk in, they hurried off to see the baby the angels proclaimed. Imagine—they arrived at the manger, a tiny baby lay in the arms of his mother, and he is proclaimed the Messiah, the one they'd been waiting for. No doubt the shepherds stood in awe. They'd heard God's promise of a Savior but never expected to have the honor to be chosen to see him.

When they left the manger, they didn't jog back to their hill. Instead, they shared the good news—a Savior is born—the Messiah is here—we've seen him with our own eyes.

Jesus came to the world to save us from evil and sin. He entered this world as a babe in a manger. Smelly, stinky shepherds visited first, not kings or priests, but everyday workers who spent time tending. And they spread the word "Jesus is born" to everyone they saw.

From the beginning of Jesus time on earth, God used ordinary men and women to spread the gospel. He still does today. We don't need a fancy degree or title to be a shepherd for Jesus. We just need to know how much he loves us.

Go tell everyone that Jesus lives and loves them. He wants the world to know.

Have You Read Young Claus?

Young Claus, a delightful story imagined by J. Michael Sims,

 is a wonderful family Christmas read.

My brother and I discovered this book years ago.

We bought each other a copy and had 

the joy of sharing it together again this year.

I read it aloud, and we shared our love of Christmas.

If you're looking for a fun read try Young Claus.

 

He is the Reason

I love the evergreens in the winter.

They stand tall and remind me of Jesus.

They are evergreen, and He is everlasting.

In this season of celebration,

embrace the truth of Jesus' birth.

He came to set us free from the chains of sin and death

and to renew our spirits.

He truly is the reason for the season.

 

Celebrate Christmas~Angels

Luke 1:28-33
The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”

An angel carried hope to a broken world. 

Years ago, I sewed an angel costume for my daughter to wear in the church's Christmas play. She was adorable. That same simple, white dress, and angel wings have been passed down through the family. What a delight to see the little ones dressed in glittery garland halos, and singing from their little hearts.

How do you picture an angel?
In my mind's eye I see cherub cheeks, ringlets in their hair, and bright eyes. Their tiny barefoot feet poke out under crisp white gowns. Each one stands erect and they sing the most beautiful melody. But the angels in the Bible weren't cute little cherubs, they were pictured as fierce warriors, men dressed in white, some bigger than life.

God created angels to minister to his people. In the Bible, angels prepared for spiritual combat, while others delivered divine messages. Either way, they are prepared to battle for and care for Jesus' followers.

Before Jesus was born, they led the brigades to prepare the way for the King of Kings. In the Christmas story these men God sent to earth, visited Joseph, Mary, Zechariah, and the shepherds. They showed up to spread the good news of hope, joy, and love.

You see, God sent the angels with purpose. Our world is broken. God's people need heavenly beings to fight for us, assist us, and speak to us. God asked his angels to spread God's words. I've not seen an angel (that I know of) but I believe they dwell among us. They minister to God's people even as they did in biblical times.

Read the Christmas story in Matthew and Luke and focus on the angels, find the joy they shared as hope for our weary world.

 

Fresh Snow

 Everything looks magical when it snows.

-Lorelai Gilmore

As I drove home in the evening, the trees glistened with white,

and the ground rested under a blanket of fresh snow. 

In southwest Ohio, we had our first snowfall.

I still feel like a kid when I see those flakes floating to the earth.

Something about the snow reminds me to stop and

take the time to enjoy the beauty and be thankful.

A Thankful Heart

Colossians 4:2
Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart.

I have fond memories of my dad praying grace over our meals, when I was growing up. Tim's prayers at our dinners bless my heart. My girls learned to pray their prayers at bedtime with honesty and sweetness. Oh, how I enjoy our grandkids' voices speaking to their heavenly father. Over the years, I've been asked to pray out loud, and I'll be honest, I get nervous. I'm not comfortable leading others in prayer. As a matter of fact, I used to struggle with how I should communicate with the Lord, at all. But I've learned, I don't need to be nervous or shy about prayers. I simply need to go before God with whatever is on my mind. Sometimes I write my prayers in a notebook. Other times, I talk to him whenever a need comes to mind. The truth I know is—God wants to hear from me.

Paul tells the Colossian church to pray with an alert mind and a thankful heart. Even though my words may be simple, I don't want to be distracted when I call up words to Jesus. Instead, I need to be attentive. And I should always go before the Lord with thanksgiving. With Thanksgiving Day around the corner, it's easy to think of what I'm thankful for. But what about next week? Or during the hustle and bustle of Christmas, if I become irritated and tired. What about next year, after the new diet doesn't work out and the scales are stuck? Yep, even then I need to go before God with a thankful heart. What if all is well? Do I stop talking to God? No. I need to shout words of thanks and praise! I am grateful that God has set up a way for us to communicate. I love talking to him and listening for answers.

This week as Thanksgiving approaches, give thanks. Sometimes that's enough.